in response to OliviaDianne... I'm 23.The same exact thing happend to me I wwas with my babys father for four years and then he wanted to have a family so I agreed he chickened out and left me while I was 6 months pregnant for a 18yr old girl then he came back two months later trying to pretend like it never happend. Ughh this is a horrible situation as it causes painful feelings. The advise I give to you is time goes on life goes on, find a therapist I did . Have them lay out some options with you and see what you guys come up with. Stay strong !! U are a independent woman who can make it! You don't need him!! Be brave. May god be with you and help you find a clear path.